10 Harsh Lessons Of Life That You Must Know Before You Become Prey To Its Harshness



A wise man learns from the experience of others. So, before you become prey to life’s harshness. Here are the few things you must know.

1. Learn To Enjoy Your Own Company

“Friends forever” is a myth. Anybody can leave. Everyone has their own preferences in life. Don’t get disheartened if someone goes away from your life. It’s your life so enjoy it fully.



2. Love Your Parents More

They are not going to stick around you forever. We are so busy in growing up; we often forget they are also growing old. Make them happy every minute.



3. Do Not Trust Everybody

Learn to say NO. Prioritize people and know who is good and who is bad. The companion you are going to keep decides your rest of the life journey.



4. Don’t Get Emotionally Involved With Romantic Movies

Whatever the shit they project and show us that never happens in reality.



5. Having Procrastination Is Dangerous

it is quiet killer. Act now before you repent later.



6. Everything Happens For A Reason

Let the things unfold themselves. Mostly it always turns to good.



7. There Is Nothing As Overnight Success

You would be tempted to give up on your dreams and live an average life. Don’t ever do that. Work hard for your goals. You might still fail even you work fucking hard. The truth is, you don’t have absolute control in anything. So, be flexible.



8. Learn To Ignore

Whether you like it or not, people will talk behind you. Sometimes it would be the people whom you trusted the most.



9. Time Starts Becoming The Most Valuable Commodity

Time wasted is life wasted. You can’t bring back the time that is gone. It will treat you like shit if you treat it cheaply.



10. You Will Be Alone Most Of The Time

Not lonely, but alone.  Learn to enjoy with yourself. You can be the best friend for yourself. Enjoy solitude. Try to understand the difference of aloneness and loneliness to avoid unnecessary suffering.


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Are there any other harsh lessons you faced? Share us in the comments 

Pavani Bharathula
I am Pavani, stands for highly deterministic, self-motivator, highly individual, independent and bold person; like to inspire and motivate people through my writings and speeches.

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