Everyone wants to live happily. Sometimes there are situations which spoil our mood, break our heart. There are times when we unable to cope up with depression. Coming out from those situations is very challenging. We forget how to live our life. We even forget how to be happy. Trust me, it is not at all difficult. All that we need is to change our mindset. Today, we brought you a few things which you absolutely need to quit to live your life to the fullest.
First thing first. Stop Overthinking. Life is very simple, don’t make it complex. You need to take things normally. You need to control your mind, don’t let your mind control you. For example, when you drive a car or ride a bike, till the time you are controlling the speed, all is good, but what happens when you cannot control the speed? The chances are high that you met with an accident and hurt yourself, right. Same is the case with your mind. Don’t be exaggerated. Whatever happens, happens for a reason. Just remember, everything is good if you feel good. So always think positive. and trust your instinct.
2. Trying To Please Everyone
Not everyone believes in God, right? The same thing is you cannot keep everyone happy. See, this is your life, you cannot please everyone; as everyone has their own and different thinking. Not all five fingers are the same. If they would have been the same, your life would have been more complex. So live in yourself, find out the people who stand with you at your good and bad times, keep your circle and group with positive people. Negative people will not help you much, in fact, they can spoil your time and mood.
Forget what people will think, do things that you think are good. Don’t think what people will think if I wear this. People will talk and forgot. You know, Sabse Bada Rog, Kya Kahenge Log. Do what you think is good and not what will people say if I do this. Believe in yourself, and stop trying to please everyone.
3. Fearing Change
The one thing which is constant in life is Change. Don’t fear change. Change is always good. Remember how things have changed, from radio to television to LED. from landline to mobile to smartphones. With technology keeps on growing, things will change. Walk with time, don’t fear change. This will help you to enjoy your life.
4. Living In The Past
Most of the people don’t want to come out from their past or take too much time to think about it. See this can take you to severe depression and you will get nothing from this. Life is one, don’t waste it thinking about the wrong things happened in the past. See time will not come back, so thinking about it too much will spoil your beautiful present and also impact your future. Whatever happened, you cannot change it, but at least stop living in your past. Be happy and there is a saying, the best revenge is a success. If you overcome the past, half of your problems will be solved. You can also talk with a licensed therapist at BetterHelp.com to manage your depression and other mental health issues.
5. Putting Yourself Down
Sometimes we trouble ourselves too much that we put ourselves down. But one question you need to answer yourself, Is it going to help you with something good? No. Not getting good marks, or not cleared the interview or maybe your lover left you, and you put yourself down. What will happen from this? You will lose your confidence. For the next exams, next interviews you will be feared. You will fear to lose. So you need to understand point 4, Don’t put yourself down. Believe it, there is always a new day, new hopes new beginning, don’t fear failure. You can always win and achieve whatever you want. Don’t quit and never give up. Till you get up every time from your failures and still keep going, you are a Winner.
6. First Live Moments, Then Create Memories
This is the latest and most important one. Nowadays, we plan for outings not to enjoy, but just to take photos and selfies. We have started believing that we have enjoyed and lived moments. But don’t you think, just to take selfies and photos for social media and to keep in your laptop or hard disk, have you lived those moments. Even people going for dinner or to watch a match, they keep on taking photos and stop living those moments.
See, we are not saying don’t take photos and selfies, what we are saying is live those moments first. Those moments will never come back. Living the moments is better than creating memories. How many times, we open photos of ours from the picnic or outings? Hardly a few times. But if you live your moments, those moments will always cherish inside you. First, learn to live moments and then create memories.
Trust me, if you follow these things, we are sure the life of yours will be changed completely and you will start living your life to the fullest. You can also check the various ways to improve the quality of life.