Love is very powerful. It has the ability to change anyone. A relationship without love is like a person who stopped breathing forever. When love is replaced with “hatred or doubt”, life will become miserable. This is true especially in the case of wife and husband.
That relationship has to be saved every minute and every day till the end of the life once you hold the hand. However, some people do change after marriage for some reasons. Once married every person becomes so possessive about their partner. In that regard, they keep a spy eye on their phone.
But wait…checking your partner phone continuously will bring more damage to the relationship.
This is how.
1. It Leaves You With No Self-Respect
At first, ask yourself, will you like if someone checks your phone? Obviously, NO right. Checking the phone redefines the whole dynamics of the relationship in the ugliest way possible. You will start feeling insecure with little self-respect. And it speaks volumes about your relationship with yourself. Killing self-respect is like killing yourself inside.
2. Kill The Temptation To Peep Into Your Partner Phone
Your sudden urge to go through your partner’s phone when it is left unattended may leave you a searing doubt in your head. And it can spoil your inner peace.
3. It’s Not Right When You Feel Secure
Even if your partner’s actions have not been questionable, you still pick up the phone and unlock it. It is not the right thing to do when everything is going fine. It starts embarrassing your partner.
4. Stop the Desire To Find Something Wrong
When you pick up the phone, the desire strengthens to find something a little off on the cell phone. It may be a text which is a little too friendly or a call made to a certain number way too many times or an ex’s picture liked on Instagram.
5. Stop The Burning Desire To Check The Phone
Imagine this scenario. The two of you have gone out for a dinner party and your better-half tells you that he/she needs to go to the washroom. You see the phone lying right in front of you and know their passcode and there is a burning desire in your head to go through the texts and emails. When your partner finds this, he/she may develop some hatred towards you.