In the Indian society, the desires and freedom of the women are neglected. Moreover, women seek permission for almost 90% of the things that they desire. Hence, today we have brought you 8 things for which the women seek permission, no matter how old they are, they cannot do these things without permission.
1. Decorating Room The Way They want
In our society the ideal women are considered as the Angels in the house. They should be adroit in the household work. They are considered as the tool not the human. Hence, they have to seek permission if they want to decorate their room the way they like, as according to their parents, there should be nothing violent to affect their ideal image.
2. Returning Late From Work
Girl returning late night at home, it doesn’t suit the Indian society. Moreover, there are majority of chances that girls would not be allowed to do so. No matter how many times they seek permission.
3. Doing Job
From birth to marriage, girls are considered as the responsibility of parents. However, that responsibility is shifted to the husband after the marriage. But they do not think about letting the women handling their own responsibilities in their own way; women have to get permission if they want to do job.
Women are not allowed to go on vacation until they have asked for permission from their parents. Perhaps it is because they think their daughters can’t take care of themselves.
5. Wearing The Clothes They Want
They cannot wear anything that they want. They have to seek permission. Their fashion or comfort is not their choice.
6. Skip Cooking
As we have mentioned earlier, the Angel in the house is considered as the ideal woman. So she should be skillful in cooking. And, she can’t skip the cooking without permission.
7. Eating Whatever They Want
Indian mothers are conscious about their daughter’s health and beauty. Hence, they prohibit the unhealthy food. However, they are unaware about the fact that they are suppressing the desires of the girl.
Tattoos display the freedom of choice. But a girl cannot have them without permission. What if her husband does not like the tattoo? Pleasing her husband is the priority, hence they ask for permission from the husband or parents before getting tattoo.
What do say about these conditions where, the women have to choke their desires? Share in the comments.
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